SPH and SPE Fetishes are Quite Common

Understanding this fetish is challenging. Especially when it comes to why people find pleasure in humiliation or encouragement regarding a smaller penis size. Like any fetish, it’s important to respect what others find appealing without judgment.

This is one of the few fetishes where laughter is often welcomed and embraced in many contexts.

What is SPH?

SPH stands for Small Penis Humiliation. It’s a fetish in which a man derives pleasure from having his penis size ridiculed. Ultimately, this means they want you to not only make fun of their size but their motives around even showing you. Here are some examples of prompts that accompany this fetish. Remember, this is always dependent on the intensity of the individual needs.

– You will never have me with something that small!

– How do you even deserve to touch me, so embarrassing.

– Look at that thing, are you even able to cum?

What is SPE?

SPE, or Small Penis Enthusiasm, is a fetish that celebrates and appreciates smaller penises rather than ridicules them. It promotes a positive view of size. Beyond that, it emphasizes that attraction comes in many forms and encourages body positivity.

The individual wants to be told their size does not matter. They want to be encouraged rather than humiliated and embraced for the smaller size of their penis.

Why Do People Enjoy this Particular Fetish?

Like all fetishes, there isn’t a single explanation for what ignites certain desires. Research suggests that childhood experiences and early arousal play significant roles. Still, many other factors contribute to the development of new fetishes. Our minds and sexualities are constantly evolving. This particular fetish offers a way to relinquish control for many. Especially for those who identify as more submissive.

Many people argue that fetishes involving shame and humiliation are harmful. They suggest that such experiences may undermine self-worth and be perceived as cruel.

Conversely, others find that these dynamics boost their self-confidence and provide an outlet for desires that they struggle to express. I’ve heard many individuals say that, given their leadership roles in other aspects of life, experiencing degradation in this context offers a welcome release from control and stress.

In the end, it’s always about what you have discussed personally with your partner. SPE and SPH both must be discussed and safe words put in place to ensure you have the best possible outcome! Not sure how to start these sort of conversations? Play our 20 Naughty Questions Game!