Smooth Solutions: A Guide to Lubricants

Cordelia Michaelson

Romance author whose life revolves around horses and crime shows.

When playing in the bedroom, there are so many lubricants to choose from! 

 

But first, what exactly are lubricants? They’re designed to enhance efficiency by reducing friction during sexual activities, including foreplay, intercourse, and masturbation. There are a LOT of reasons why someone may need lube and using lubrication does not mean you are not turned on. 

Water-Based:

Water-based lubricants are versatile and safe for a variety of activities, including use with toys made from different materials. Since they’re primarily water, they typically have no scents, tastes, or colors, and they won’t stain your sheets. These lubes are easy to clean up—just rinse with water!

However, they can dry out more quickly, so you might need to reapply them or add a bit of water to keep things slick. They are compatible with latex condoms, making them a great choice for bedroom fun, but they’re not ideal for water play, as they wash away easily.

Here’s my favorite! 

 

Oil-Based:

Oil-based lubricants are formulated from various oils, making them thicker and longer-lasting than water-based options (especially when mixed with them). They’re particularly well-suited for anal toys. However, they can be tougher to wash off, requiring soap, water, and effort. It’s also important to be cautious, as they can stain fabrics.

These lubes are safe to use with non-latex toys, but they should not be used with latex condoms, as they can weaken the material. They’re best for partners who aren’t using condoms.

Silicone:

Silicone lubes, like oil-based options, are thicker and offer long-lasting performance. Although they tend to come with a higher price tag, many find them worth the investment. They’re typically hypoallergenic, making them an excellent choice for those with allergies or sensitivities, and you need to use less product compared to oil or water-based lubricants, so a bottle lasts longer.

However, they should not be used with silicone toys, as they can cause damage. On the plus side, silicone lubes are safe to use with latex condoms. They are among the most commonly recommended options due to their versatility and are ideal for water play as well as anal activities. Plus, they provide a silky feel on the skin that you won’t get with oil or water-based lubes.

Here’s a great one! 

Hybrid:

Hybrid lubes blend water-based and silicone formulas, giving you the easy cleanup of water-based lubes along with the long-lasting effects of silicone. They’re also suitable for water play!

One brand that stands out is Astroglide, which offers a variety of products for each type of lubricant mentioned above. This is great if you’re unsure which one will work best for you and your partner!

Plus, they also have extra gentle options for those with severe allergies or sensitivities, so no one has to feel left out!

Flavored Lubricants:

Flavored lubes are primarily designed for oral sex and come in a wide variety of flavors, including cherry, watermelon, strawberry, caramel, and apple. Some even have warming or numbing properties to enhance the experience. However, just like with flavored condoms, it’s crucial to choose sugar-free options. Sugary lubes can increase the risk of vaginal yeast infections or other bacterial infections.

With so many types of lubricants available, there’s something for everyone! Whether you prefer water-based, oil-based, silicone, hybrid, or flavored lubes, each type offers unique benefits for enhancing your intimate experiences. Always consider your needs and preferences, and don’t hesitate to experiment to find what works best for you and your partner. Happy exploring!