How Color Influences Desire and Attraction

TAWNEY SEREN

Sex Educator, Author, and Host of Open Bobs BB

Colors truly influence our arousal! 

 

Sure, we all have colors we prefer and naturally gravitate towards. However, you might find it interesting to learn that our bodies respond physically to certain colors. It may be the perfect opportunity to consider repainting the bedroom walls.

get the blood flowing

In previous posts we learned how food can be used to arouse our partner (HERE) and how certain scents can get you in the mood (HERE). But how does color come into play?

Colors not only stimulate the mind but also energize the body. Color acts as light and energy, interacting with our bodies to produce various reactions, including stimulation. In fact, studies show that RED serves as the most sexually stimulating color. Red raises blood pressure and enhances arousal.

On the other hand, blue creates a calming and serene effect.

50 shades of…no?

According to recent surveys, grey has emerged as the least stimulating color on the spectrum, with green trailing closely behind as the second least arousing hue. While many individuals choose to decorate their living spaces, particularly personal retreats like bedrooms or creative nooks, in this moody and enigmatic shade, it’s important to consider that these colors may not incite the desired energy or ambiance for your guests.

If you’re looking to create a more inviting and passionate atmosphere, you might want to consider bolder choices. As for me, I’m on a quest to find a vibrant fire engine red for my bedroom! With its boldness and energy, it promises to reinvigorate the space and potentially ignite some excitement.

In a world increasingly dominated by visual stimuli, being mindful of the colors we surround ourselves with can enhance not only our personal spaces but also our interpersonal relationships. Whether you’re redecorating your home, planning a romantic date, or simply choosing an outfit, considering the psychological implications of color can add an extra layer of intention to your decisions.

Ultimately, the relationship between colors and arousal is a testament to the nuanced experiences of being human. As we continue to navigate our emotional landscapes, let us embrace the vibrant palette of colors at our disposal, recognizing their potential to enrich our experiences and connections.

So, the next time you find yourself captivated by a particular hue, take a moment to reflect: What emotions does it stir within you? How might it influence your interactions with others? By exploring and understanding our responses to color, we can create environments that not only please the eye but also ignite passion and connection in our lives.