Games to Play in the Bedroom – 20 Naughty Questions

Cordelia Michaelson

Romance author whose life revolves around horses and crime shows.

Bedroom games can be a great way to warm up with your partner

Games in the bedroom can be a lot of fun! Why not spice things up with a game of twenty questions? If you don’t have your list of naughty questions, I’m here to help! 😉

Buckle up, grab your partner, and let’s bring on the heat! 

1.) What’s your favorite adult toy? If you don’t have one, are you open to using toys in the bedroom? 

Asking your partner about their favorite adult toy opens the door to sharing preferences and desires, enhancing intimacy. If they don’t have a favorite, exploring their openness to using toys can lead to exciting new experiences together, fostering communication and creativity in the bedroom.

2.) What is your favorite time of the day to have sex? 

Discussing your partner’s favorite time of day to be intimate helps align your schedules and energy levels for a more fulfilling experience. It fosters open communication about desires and preferences, making intimacy more enjoyable and ensuring both partners feel connected and in tune with each other’s needs.

3.) What’s the naughtiest fantasy you’ve ever had about me?

Asking your partner about their naughtiest fantasy regarding you can deepen intimacy and trust in your relationship. It invites playful exploration of desires and can spark exciting conversations about your shared sexual chemistry. This question not only allows for vulnerability but also encourages both partners to express their fantasies, enhancing the overall connection and enjoyment in the bedroom.

4.) Do you have a fetish you want to explore?

Asking your partner if they have a fetish they want to explore encourages open dialogue about desires and boundaries. This question fosters trust and intimacy, allowing both partners to share their interests in a non-judgmental space. Exploring fetishes together can lead to new experiences that enhance pleasure and deepen your connection, making your intimate life more exciting and fulfilling.

5.) If you could have sex in a public place, where would it be?

Asking your partner where they would like to have sex in a public place adds an element of adventure and spontaneity to your relationship. It encourages playful conversation about fantasies and desires, allowing both partners to share their boundaries and comfort levels. This question can also ignite excitement and creativity in your intimate life, making it a fun way to explore new possibilities together.

6.) What is your favorite thing to think about when masturbating?

Asking your partner about their favorite thoughts during masturbation can enhance intimacy and enhance your sexual connection. It provides insight into their desires and fantasies, allowing for deeper understanding and communication. This question can lead to discussions about what turns them on, helping both partners feel more comfortable sharing their needs and preferences, ultimately enriching your intimate life together.

7.) Do you watch porn? If so, what is your favorite type?

Asking this question allows for more insight into the preferences of each other and can give you more ideas to explore. It may also be a great way to enhance foreplay before you enjoy each other!

8.) Would you ever watch porn with me? 

If you are open to watching with your partner, it can be a very arousing experience with each other. This not only can show you the different preferences of your partner, but also give you ideas to explore together.

9.) Have you ever had a threesome?

Asking your partner if they’ve ever had a threesome opens the door to conversations about past experiences, desires, and boundaries. It encourages honesty and vulnerability, allowing both partners to explore feelings about non-monogamous scenarios. This question can help you understand your partner’s sexual history and preferences, and it may lead to discussions about fantasies or interests in exploring new dynamics together, enhancing your intimacy and connection.

10.) What is your favorite sexual position?

Asking your partner about their favorite sexual position opens communication about desires and preferences in the bedroom. This question can lead to playful exploration and experimentation, ensuring that both partners feel satisfied and connected. 

Getting Warmer! 

11.) What is your least favorite sexual position?

Asking your partner about their least favorite sexual position promotes open communication about boundaries and comfort levels. It allows you to understand what they don’t enjoy, helping to avoid situations that could lead to discomfort or dissatisfaction. Ultimately, discussing your least favorite positions can enhance intimacy by ensuring that your shared experiences are enjoyable and fulfilling for both of you.

12.) Do you enjoy dirty talk?

Dirty talk can be fun because it adds an exciting layer of intimacy and arousal to your experiences. It allows partners to express desires, fantasies, and compliments in a way that heightens anticipation and connection. Engaging in dirty talk can create a playful atmosphere, boost confidence, and deepen emotional bonds, making the experience more thrilling and memorable for both partners.

13.) What is a fantasy you have on your bucket list? 

Who knows? Maybe there are some things the two of you can do together to mark off your sexual bucket list! You won’t know until you ask and encourage open conversation with your partner.

14.) Would you enjoy trying roleplay in the bedroom with me? 

Roleplaying is a great way to connect and have a fun time while also stepping outside the norm and the roles you play on a day-to-day basis! Find some roles that turn each other on and give it a try! Don’t know where to start? Take my free class! 

15.) Do you enjoy wearing lingerie or sexy outfits? What are your favorites?

This can help give insight as to what the other person wants to wear, and a great chance to find out if the other partner likes outfits! Don’t be afraid to pitch some ideas or styles if you like something in particular!

16.) Do you prefer sex with the lights on or off?

They may be shy and prefer the lights off! Whatever the case, this can prevent having to ask and can always shift and change depending on your mood and preferences when you are having sex.

17.) Can you take my underwear off with your teeth?

If they aren’t sure, this is a fun way to introduce testing the theory! Don’t forget to save this page in case things get too heated and you have to return to finish the questions after you… ahem.

18.) Would you consider yourself more dominant or more submissive? 

Asking your partner this allows for some insight as to what power-play dynamic they prefer in the bedroom and can spark ideas for different scenes or fun you both can have together!

19.) Would you rather watch or be watched having sex? 

This is a naughty one! Maybe your partner is more voyeuristic than you had anticipated! It’s a great way to test the water and see what would be chosen!

20.) Would you ever use food like chocolate or whipped cream in the bedroom? 

Extra points if you have some on hand! Try putting some on erogenous zones and licking it off bit by bit with your partner!

HAVE FUN!