Shower sex isn’t the easiest act…

Shower Safety first, then play

A shower is a private place where we can enjoy our bodies or get intimate with others. The warm rush of water on our naked skin not only makes us feel clean and fresh but relaxed. Unfortunately, unless you have a massive shower where you and your lover (s) can stretch out or seats where legs can be propped, shower sex is difficult. 

Before we embark on a naughty ride with ourselves or someone else, it’s important to stay safe. We use soap, shower gel, and shampoo, providing that extra ‘slick’ coating on the bottom of our shower. Whether or not you have a door on your shower or it’s a tub, spacing, and proper area for bracing your weight when things get hot and heavy is a necessity. 

Thankfully, there are plenty of toys and products made for those who love to enjoy naughty play in the shower. Ensure you have a suction cup hold in place so you have something to grab onto during both foreplay and play with a partner. 

Solo Play:

If you’re embarking on solo play, there are plenty of completely waterproof toys and there’s a chance one of your favorites already is. 

Don’t forget to invest in a shower mat so you stay stable! Especially if you plan to use lubricant and things get even more slippery. 

Couple’s Play and Positions! 

First of all, don’t focus on penetration in the shower. That close time you are spending with your partner can be used to enjoy a plethora of different acts leading up to penetration. Perhaps your partner is holding onto the shower handle with one leg up and you’re giving them oral or using your hands, knowing you’ll be finishing in the bedroom. No matter what toy, position, or act you’re performing on your partner, ensure you’re both secured with handles and away from the slippery stuff while doing so.

Balance and security are KEY, as is keeping the water warm so sexy acts aren’t stopped when the cold crawls in! 

Try some of these positions for penetration and foreplay with toys, fingers, or a penis. 

1.) Doggystyle –

Place your partner’s foot up on something and have them place one hand against the wall and the other in the shower handle, bending them forward. If you have more than a few handles, use one for yourself on the wall near their head!  

2.) One Leg Up –

Place your partner’s foot on the foot handle behind you and hold their other leg up at your side in a standing half-straddle. 

3.) Chair –

Have your partner or yourself sit on the shower bench (if you have one), or edge of the tub (if there is one in your shower). Then have the other person straddle for anal or vaginal penetration. Be sure to use the handles to hold on tight during play, no need to fall over! 

Make sure to wipe up after sex to avoid the growth of bacteria (from the water and your sexy fluids!) and be careful when stepping out of the shower as the water may have escaped during positioning. 

Don’t let the fear of slipping and sliding keep you from enjoying this intimate time with yourself and your partner! I wish you the best in your shower naughty time!